This is a short and sweet article I wrote about how to manage conflict in family relationships. It works very well between spouses as well as adult-child.

https://extension.usu.edu/strongermarriage/blog/the-do-over-strategy?fbclid=IwAR2EvxToZTEAyHj5fW2bPbzCWYX20bIR12BZoVRdtMQ7vQ1G6mlnbFiINFA